Saturday, February 18, 2006

Children's Books I Have Loved

I remember sitting in a classrom, the tall windows shadowed by long, rolled blinds, and the tiled floors, hard and cold. The desks all faced the front, but there was a large square of carpet in the back of the room, where small groups of us would congregate to learn to read. We were separated into "The Dolphins," "The Tigers," and "The Whales," and I remember crying, because I was a "Whale" and I wanted to be a "Dolphin."

We would be summoned--"Whales, I need you"-- and we would scuff back, sit cross-legged in a circle, with thin, floppy covered books in our laps. Some children ruffled the pages, fanning them, while others studied the words and the pictures, followed along with sweaty pointer fingers. "Sound it out," our teacher would urge, and we would try, sounds and syllables stretching like a rubber band, then contracting back into a word. "Don't be afraid of the big words, Jimmy," the teacher would plead, and dirty, mussed hair Jimmy would stare at her with watery, confused eyes, like he had no idea what she was talking about; Jimmy was afraid of Darth Vader and getting drafted. He wasn't running from any old words.

I don't remember much about the process of learning to read, but I remember Pringles cans, wrapped in construction paper, with skinny lists tucked into them; sight words, the ones you can't sound out. I remember workbooks, and fidgety meetings on the carpet, like a primitive self help group, with members eager to throw themselves out and share their story, and others reluctant, trying to disappear under the collars of their shirts. I remember renegade staples hooked into the carpet, the hum of the heater, peaks at the elastic of your neighbor's underpants, and boring stories about kids or static electricity.

I also remember wanting to read. Wanting to know the words in books. To not need to rely on anyone for a good story. To sit on the couch with my legs tucked up under me the way my mother sat, a thick paperback wedged in her hand. The school started me on Dick and Jane, but I started myself on Dennis the Menace, a dog-eared find at my grandma's house, probably something that belonged to my dad when he was a boy. Dennis was a bad, bad kid, always tripping people and getting into the food and making messes on the floor. His dad looked frazzled, but I always thought that they loved him, his parents, which was sort of nice, especially considering how bad he was.

Book orders were the highlight of elementary school. "You can pick 3," my mother would say, and I would pore over the flimsy sheet, circling choices, then scratching them out. Given a white envelope filled with dollars and coins and instructed to give it to the teacher immediately. When the Scholastic (or Troll) box arrived at the school, we would mob the teacher like she was Erik Estrada from CHIPS. We would take our stack of books home and devour them, careful not to bend the covers or get peanut butter on the pages.

The closest that I get to "Book Order Excitement" these days is when the Amazon box arrives. It's not the same though. I have too many books, now. I don't appreciate new ones the way I did when I was in elementary school, when my collection was first starting. I still love a book, don't get me wrong, but back in the day, my books were read and reread until they were a part of me, a part of my history. Those books made me who I am now.

Deb had a fabulous post on her blog yesterday, all about children's books. I had such a great time reading her favorites (and reminiscing) that I decided to write about some of my favorites, too. I'm modifying the original questions a bit, but you get the idea.

Favorite Children's Books THEN:
1. Dennis the Menace comic books by Hank Ketcham
2. Peanuts comic books by Charles Schultz
2. Where The Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein--poetry written especially for a kid, complete with nose picking and potty humor; gorgeous illustrations, too
3. Little Rabbit's Loose Tooth by Lucy Bate (author) and Diane DeGroat (illus.)--a pretty, pretty book and a nice story
4. George and Martha by James Marshall--loved George and Martha; they were so emotional

Favorite Children's Books NOW:
1. Bunny Knuffles by Mr. Mo Willems--colorful illustrations of a family against black and white pictures of Mo Willems' actual Slope Park neighborhood; lovely story of what happens when Daddy loses Trixie's stuffed rabbit at the laundromat
2. Lily's Purple, Plastic Purse by Kevin Henkes--fun with Lily as she explores her inner diva after getting called out for bringing her new purse to school and insisting on sharing it (and her new jangly coins) during instruction
3. Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes--Wemberly is as neurotic as I am (am surprised that she does not fear furnace combustion, too); love how she overcomes some anxieties
4. Stinky Cheese Man and Other Fairly Stupid Tales, written by Jon Scieszka and illustrated by Lane Smith--an unusual take on fairy tales, somewhat disturbing yet hilarious (i.e. The Ugly Duckling grows up . . . and is still ugly, with bulging eyes and a tongue that hangs out of his mouth)

Favorite Pre-Teen (The "OMG, I'm can't believe I'm reading a novel" category):
1. Freaky Friday by Mary Rodgers--so much wittier and sarcastic than any movie could be
2. Billion for Boris by Mary Rodgers--the sequel to Freaky Friday; just as good, I think. Boris fixes an old TV and can suddenly watch the next day's news on it--shenanigans and a get rich scheme ensue
3. The Wolves of Willowby Chase by Joan Aikin--gothic children's tale, with orphans, evil caretakers and an estate
4. The Westing Game by Ellen Raskin--filled with interesting characters residing in an high rise, I read this mystery again and again
5. Any chapter books written by Lois Lenski, specifically Cotton in My Sack, Shoo-Fly Girl, Strawberry Girl, or Prairie School--Lenski tackles eras and geographical regions in her beautifully written novels; the key character is usually a girl, about eight years old, who provides authentic details and a child's perspective on family life, school, and national events during the early to mid 20th century(charming illustrations, too, making them the ideal books for a child transitioning from picture books to chapter ones); I remember being on the edge of my seat while reading "Prairie School," which describes children getting snowed in at their school house during a blizzard

20 Comments:

Blogger Deb R said...

I love your description of your early reading classes. I could almost smell the chalk dust in the room.

One of my vivid (and not so good) memories from that time of life was when I was trying to help a boy in the same reading group I was in, because he was SO not getting it, and the teacher had NO patience for anyone who was moving either slower or faster than the bulk of the group. I remember leaning over and trying to explain something to him as quietly as I could, and suddenly being whacked across the hands with a yard stick and told to go stand in the corner because I was bing "disruptive". Yep, that was back in the dark ages when teachers could do that sort of thing without getting fired. Way to encourange learning, lady! Hmph.

OTOH, I looked forward to the book orders as much as you did. I loved the days new books arrived! I still have a few of my particular favorites from those days too.

2/18/2006 11:24 AM  
Blogger Cate said...

Deb, my heart breaks for you in that story. Teachers have so much power, and some really abuse it--it's like, if you're not patient or you don't like kids, go into another field!!! I get the "underpaid and overworked" reality, but kids are impressionable. Like you said, smacking with a ruler isn't going to "encourage learning."

Thanks for posting this topic on your blog! I loved what you wrote!

2/18/2006 11:44 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a fun post...mine would have to be:
Corduroy, Where the Wild Things Are, Bred and Jam for Francis, and the Amelia Bedelia books as a preteen. I have too many favorites now.

andrea

2/18/2006 11:59 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Oh I forgot The Lorax ...that was another HUGE favorite of mine.
a.

2/18/2006 12:02 PM  
Blogger meghan said...

OH my goodness, I LOVED the Westing Game!! I thought I was the only person who had read it. I will still pick it up and read it now! *sigh*

I had forgotten about the deep excitement of Scholastic orders. I could never choose just one. We were so broke when I was a kid - but there was always money for books. Do you mind if I make my own list on my blog? You've brought up so many memories!

2/18/2006 12:06 PM  
Blogger Shesawriter said...

I remember reading and enjoying (laughing most of the time) Fun With Dick And Jane. It's even funnier now. LOL!

Tanya

2/18/2006 12:11 PM  
Blogger Cate said...

Andrea, I forgot all about "Bread and Jam for Frances!" I love that one, too. I've never read "The Lorax" but I've heard such good things. Maybe we'll get it from the library today!

Run with it, Meg! I can't wait to read your list! Oh, and I'm so glad you loved Westing Game, too. It is one of my favorites!

2/18/2006 12:13 PM  
Blogger Out Of Jersey said...

I am amazed you can remember all those books! I remember reading like And Then There Were None as a teen, and Where The Sidewalk Ends as a kid (one of the poems was my mom's and my poem, ain't that sweet?). And where the wild things were, which I didn't find out wasn't about me until I was an adult and bought the book for a friends kid and realized, Wait, the character's name is max not david.

2/18/2006 12:49 PM  
Blogger Cate said...

CR,
I worked in an elementary school for 8 years so I was bombarded with children's lit--that's probably the main reason I remember!

Max is a pseudonym. Maurice Sendak meant "David" but he was trying to protect the innocent :D

Thanks for sharing a couple of your favorites!

2/18/2006 12:55 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

:-D I loved those school book order booklets. I'd sweat over those. Charts, ranking, however to figure out which one to get? One per issue. And the anticipation! :-)

2/18/2006 11:06 PM  
Blogger Dana said...

I am currently waiting on two Amazon boxes. Even though I have't read the stack of books I currently have at my house and have no plans to start reading the new ones right away, I would still like the boxes here...today!

I can relate to the love of wanting to read and reading as a child. The only trouble I got in when I was young was when I would read under the covers with a flashlight past my bedtime!

I was Ramona Quimby in the fourth grade play! I loved her!

xoxo

2/18/2006 11:42 PM  
Blogger LDahl said...

I bought some more old books because of you:))) Just what I need, more books. I guess I do or I wouldn't get them right?
This is a drive-by-blogging to let you know I'm thinking good thoughts for you and life is very interesting for me right now, but the brain is mostly drained and so I am indulging myself, enjoying what everyone else is painting, writing etc..... later lovely Cate!
~LD

2/19/2006 1:33 AM  
Blogger Laini Taylor said...

Cate, loved your vivid memories of learning to read! I don't have such clear memories of the early years as you, but I do remember learning to write - in first grade our handwriting test sheets were voted on by the class for who had the neatest writing, and the most popular boy in the class always won, even though his writing wasn't the best. My earliest memory of popularity contests! Always have been such a book junkie - I remember the book fairs, but even more remember my parents taking me to the bookstore for HOURS and how when it was time to go I'd have a towering stack I wanted and I would have to choose. Torture! I started collecting children's books again in college, and then wanting to illustrate them, which led me to art school, and then wanting to write them, which now I have! Three cheers for children's books!

2/19/2006 12:32 PM  
Blogger Alex S said...

Moving into my new place this weekend I think one of my favorite parts was putting all my children's books on the new shelves in the living room! I love Kevin Henkes's books as well. I think some of all-time favorites are the Moomin series by Finnish writer, Tove Jansson, Pippi Longstocking, and Philip Pullman's series about a girl named Lyra- if you haven't read them DO! The first in the series is The Golden Compass- simply amazing!

2/19/2006 10:38 PM  
Blogger MJJ Insider said...

What an awesome entry :) I had experiences much like yours when I was a kid. I was what we referred to as the "book pig" .. cause Id read them all usually the same day I got them. Clearly these are the days before the Internet took over my attention!

I dont know any of the books you listed, but I had many of my own that moulded and sculpted who I am and are responsible for my style of writing.

Even to this day I can spend hours upon hours pouring over all the books at borders or in any other decent book stores!

:)

xx
Jess

2/20/2006 7:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I too loved to read. My favourite pre-teen books all revolved around horses and dogs. My favourites were: Lad a Dog, My Friend Flicka, Big Red, Thunderhead. I LOVED these books and lost myself within the pages. When I read now.. I still am hoping to experience that same abandonment.. but rarely do.

2/20/2006 11:20 AM  
Blogger Cate said...

Tanya,
I learned on "Dick and Jane," too. I disliked all of the characters, except "Spot" and "Puff!"

Pearl,
It's so funny-our parents had to limit us back because we couldn't order books in moderation! I laughed at the idea of your chart system and rankings--so efficient!

Baylor,
Two Amazon boxes--hot damn! I can so relate. You've got to email me and let me know what you're reading!

I went to Borders on Sunday and bought a bunch, and Lou remarked dryly when I walked in carrying the bag, "Did you know that you still a bag of books in the living room?" Hmmmfff. OF COURSE I KNEW!

Ramona Quimby--what a coup! I'm jealous!

Ldahl,
I can't wait to hear about all you've been doing! I hope that you write about it! I've missed you and am so glad you stopped by, even if just for a "drive-by!" Hugs and good thoughts to you during this exciting time!

Laini,
I don't remember learning to write, but I wish I did. I remember a lot of workbooks. And I remember a teacher reading a story I wrote to the class. How lucky you are to have that! Oh, and don't get me started on trips to bookstores--I can imagine you as a little girl, carrying a tower of books!

Alexandra,
Thanks for the recommendations! I'm eager to check them out. And congrats. again on your new house--it sounds so cheerful, just bursting with books!

Jess,
Oh, I'm so glad you visited! It's nice to "meet" you! I've never heard the term "book pig" but I'm sure I'd qualify! And the internet has taken over my attention, too :)

Colleen,
My cousin loved the animal books, too! She adored horses, and it was so sad because she was a city girl and I, who had no interest in horses, lived in the country, next to a farm with a bunch of them! I agree about not experiencing the same abandonment--glad to have those memories!

2/20/2006 2:04 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I loved ordering those books in school, too. I agree that Amazon boxes aren't the same. But still fun! I personally am so interested in children's books that I started a whole website about them. I just re-read The Wolves of Willowby Chase, and it holds up remarkably well. I have The Westing Game on my list - moved higher after reading your post, and the associated comments. Thanks!

2/20/2006 10:30 PM  
Blogger MJJ Insider said...

:) Cate, the pleasure is all mine!

2/21/2006 4:41 AM  
Blogger Cate said...

Jen,
Ohh, I'm off to see your website right now! What a wonderful idea. And I'm so glad that "Wolves" held up well. I need to reread that one!

Jess,
Aw, thanks!

2/21/2006 2:21 PM  

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